Sometimes we do not take charge of our life and what we want to achieve, that is why life decides for us, make sure you are present in every moment, aware of everything that happens in your life and that you are the architect of your future . If we build a house and no one is in charge of planning it, we could surely end up with a bathroom without a door, a sink without the possibility of entering water pipes or a thousand things that would simply make the final result not what we expected and we would invest more resources trying to repair it and Maybe even then it would never be the same as we wanted.

That is why this is a good time to define what you want to achieve this year and how you are going to do it, become your own architect, ensuring that at the end of the year everything was the result of what you wanted and what you worked for, not simply where life took you.

Ask yourself:

- Do you dedicate enough time to your family and the people you love? One day they may replace you at your job, one day you may not be indispensable and for them you will be nobody, however your family are the only ones who will be with you forever and will accompany you through thick and thin.

- Do you love your job? Do you enjoy what you do and am I serving a greater purpose? If not, it's time to start looking for that thing that will make you not hate Mondays and that most of your life will not be wasted.

- Are you with the person you love? Do you value them and build with them every day? Is it a relationship free of attachments and does it make you feel happy? or on the contrary, it is time to let go or it is time to reconnect with myself and attract what you want.

- Do you take care of your health? Do you worry about being better inside and out? When you look in the mirror at the end of the year, how do you want to look and feel? Is there anything you can change to make me feel better? Remember that you must exercise regularly so that your body is healthy. If you don't have time now, you may have to make time for illness in the future. Practice meditation, which helps you relax and connect with yourself.

- Are you surrounded by people who fulfill you and make me better? And are they people I admire? Remember that you are the result of the five people you relate to the most, make sure they are people you would like to become.

Write down all your resolutions for this year, analyze what you can do in each area to fulfill them and start working on them, so that at the end of 2020 your life and the lives of the people around you are better, put aside your fears and attachments, generally they are greater in our mind than in reality, what limits us is often only part of our imagination.

Make sure that tomorrow your life and that of the people around you is better than today.